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Oct

I fired her!

Having a newborn baby is a totally new experience and so as all the upcoming experiences. I just fired someone, for the first time.

My wife just discharged from the hospital 3 days ago after delivering our very first baby boy. Man am I glad everything is over and both of them were healthy.

I actually hired a lady to take care of my wife and the baby for the next one month time. having knowing nothing about baby and those to-do and not-to-do things after delivery, I choose to sacrifice the RM2600 to get everything be taken care. That amount is even more than my basic salary already but well, I don't have a better choice.

However, my wife delivered our baby almost one month earlier that the date mentioned to the care taker and she was about to go for a trip to China. Somehow, she got her sister to replace her for the job. Though I wasn't quite like the option but I don't have much choice. It's hard to get someone in the very last minute.

Although my mother was around but I wanted her to take some nice rest since she has been taking care both my sister's child for the past 3 years.
Taking care of a new born baby means that there will be no comfortable sleep at night as the baby would just cry out in the middle of the night for all sort of reason.

That aunty started work right after my wife discharged from the hospital. Things seems to be okay for me but since I didn't know anything much about taking care of a baby, it just doesn't bother me much, as long as she take care of what she suppose to do and no baby crying!

Things started to get pretty much un-well on the next day. Her work is not neat and lack is here and there. My mother who come over to visit her grand child always have a comment or two about her job. Well, everyone have their own preference. Probably she just need some time to adjust herself to suits the needs. So I don't really take those comments seriously.

It's the third day today. My mother-in-law coming over for a visit. I know there will be more complaint about the aunty this time. I know my mother-in-law. Mulut Laser as what people say. And things get even worst when she combined with my mother!

I wasn't at home in the afternoon but from what I get to know later after that, my mother and mother-in-law were talking loads and lots about the aunty's work. Bad things.
I doesn't sounds good.

Later in the evening, my dad called up. It seems that he too, got involved into the farking saga. My dad want me to fire the aunty! Immediately!

WTF! All in the sudden, I was dragged into the shit too. I tried to understand from everyone's point of view to understand if the aunty was not doing her job correctly. I know it is not fair if I only listen to one party but of course, I am the one who going to pay the freaking RM2600 so I certainly want the aunty to do her job correctly.

After hours of talking to this and that person, I conclude that most of the complaint is true and valid. Below is some of the complaint;

  • She slept in the afternoon and didn't prepare food to my wife. My mother who came over later on get to know about it and make some food to my wife instead.
  • She serve some food which not suppose to be taken for a woman who just did a surgery delivery.
  • Some of the necessary clothing which suppose to be wear onto the baby was not being used.
  • The way she prepare certain food is entirely not right, in terms of hygiene.
  • She chase Astro chinese drama! Time's up, switch on the TV, even more efficient than me!
  • And a few more which I notice but not wanted to mention.

    Finally, I talked to the aunty. I said that I don't need her service anymore. Everyone's wasn't so pleasant with the way she work and this is only the third day. As the talk goes on, she demanded a 2 weeks payment if I wish to discontinue her service. Adn that is her-law. WTF talking wat law now.
    She gave me shit service and sumore want me to pay 2 weeks!
    I am not a good negotiator, if given choice, I would just told her to take it or leave with nothing. But I don't want things to get intense.

    Knowing myself is not good in talking things up, I call up for reinforcement! I get my sister-in-law over to talk to her. Well, I know she likes to talk a lot and not only that, she bring over her sister which is also quite laser mouth too. On top of that, my mother was also came over. 3 versus 1 mouth, where can fight anymore.

    Knowing that it is futile to argue against the 3 laser mouth, the aunty accept my offer. I paid her RM300 for the 3 days work and a Ang Pau of RM20. Tell me if that consider too little!?

    So, that was it. I just fired my baby care taker.

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    Comments
    #1 cass (2007-10-21)
    not easy, but glad it is over for you. congrats on the new born. :)
    #2 decypher (2007-10-21)
    Woh, that's just brutal!

    I mean the aunty. RM2600 for taking care of a baby? Gosh. Talk about inflation!
    #3 wong (2007-10-21)
    Consider much lo... RM300 for 3 freaking day... Make it RM30 for the last 3 days la... Eh... You provide Astro to her also hor... Make thing clear also ma...
    #4 New Kid On The Blog (2007-10-21)
    You had just fired your confinement lady! RM2600 is slighly expensive even in Penang. Now it's getting difficult to find a good one and also understand what to cook for the mother and how to look after the baby.... Very sorry to hear that....
    #5 Steven (2007-10-21)
    Simply lousy care-taker. Especially when u told about the 'chasing Astro chinese drama' part.. Pathetic is it.. No wonder ppl prefer imported maids over locals. They're more dedicated and hardworking at the first place. The care-taker u hired and fired really chap tou.. give lousy service for three days and get RM320. what an easy money =.= anyway, good luck to you Ipohchai.. or should I say.. "Ipoh-lou" ?? haha. just kidding ;)
    #6 celine (2007-10-21)
    Now a days it's really hard to get a good confinement lady. Another option will be confinement center.
    #7 kevin lau (2007-10-21)
    congratulations on the new born... it's hard to find good caretaker nowadays...
    #8 melvin,foong (2007-10-22)
    Actually .. If I were you .. I think I just give her a Rm20 ang pow.. reason? She dint do her job properly .. what for pay?
    #9 xin (2007-10-25)
    congrats on the baby boi!

    well, it is really hard to get a good those 'sit-moon-lady', unless its someone u know well. i heard there are those hosp in penang, abt 3k+, inclusive meals and baby care. my fren said the service was good
    #10 Erina Law (2007-10-26)
    New Kid On The Blog is rite. RM2600 is also alittle expensive in penang. Normally pay between RM2200 - RM2400. Now got confinement centre leh. So convenient. RM300 is too much for a lady like her lor. Btw, congratulation on ur new born baby.
    #11 wendy (2007-10-27)
    your blog made me feel that ur still single and avaiable. suddenly u blog about ur wife and baby. hehehe... now those aunty who take care of new born baby n the mother...very the expensive one. cos they have to wake up middle of the nite. almost a full time 24 hrs stand-by one. so next time i must marry a husband which can earn at least RM5K a month. kekeke...
    #12 ipoh mali (2007-12-13)
    I just asked my co-worker who is American to read your story. And he said "Shxx! 3 days paid equal to $320.00, damn man you must be RICH!" hahahahhahahahaha got any more offer?
    #13 ipohchai (2007-12-13)
    ipohmali: umm... wait till I have another baby hehehe
    #14 good job (2008-08-05)
    Next time u should try the confinement center,their service is good.one the best in JB confinement is name BABY CARE CONFINEMENT HOME 019 7522092 Mdm Ng
    #15 EASY (2009-09-30)
    Cofinement center is more expensive as my research. normally > RM3000. My friend choose for specially package cosing RM6k+. I still prefer the confinement lady. Jus that you should get those who recommended. Rm2200 and RM2600 just 400 different. Confinement center also have many complaints...
    #16 Lim (2010-01-15)
    I have a very good confinement lady. She takes very good care of my baby and me. She is also very clean and cooks for my hubby and mum in law. Next time you may want to try her. Its Madem Sie. 016-4946303
    #17 nicole (2010-01-19)
    Sry if my comment came in late cos having some internet line in my house and only now I can go thru. Well, we have lots of problems when we employed somebody no matter in what lines and what type of job he/she is doing. I do not surprise for all this matters of problems you have mentioned. Numbers of auntie are like that nowadays and I believe not only your side but then some side which they may not say out to publics where can have some discussion. Especially Ipoh. I am ipoh born but was brought up in KL and I felt that all this ppls are demanding too high in Ipoh compare to KL and their work are lousy. Franckly speaking, in ipoh 80% are like that. I get comments from friends, and myself too. When I talked to my hubby's about this aunties working with us, he just smiles, aunty ini macam lah. Maybe.....perhaps ipoh consider is village and their character is like that. I am so sorry for putting up the comments this way but then I do really give up with this ipoh aunty looking for works. They are frash about their family problems and they just come with chin chai work. I do really understand the problems you are complaining about her. In future, possibly to get somebody with recommended by somebody closed. They are more responsibility. I am frash with my working aunty too but then like what you mentioned, last minutes nothing can be done, orang cakap "Better than dun have"........but too disappointed with this ppls, telling you that all this ppls here are almost the same. Take good care and look carefully in the future. Lastly congratulations to you and your misses and may this boy filled you and your behalf life with joy.....god bless you
    #18 Ivy (2010-09-20)
    Sorry to hear about the bad experience. I too and a few friends that encounter that. These days really hard to find a good confinement lady. There's a good one if anyone is looking Doris 017-579 6789 from Ipoh.
    #19 sherry (2010-10-08)
    I had a very good confinement lady. Her name is Mdm Sie. She takes great care of my baby, very clean, supports breastfeeding, and cooks delicious food for me and my husband. On her last day, she even took care to clean my whole kicthen and baby room so that we have a clean baby room and kitchen after she left. :-) She only does confinement in Penang state and only speaks Mandarin and Hokkien. HP: 016-4946303
    #20 Xin (2011-08-15)
    IpohChai,
    Very sad to hear your story. However, it is all depend on luck, if you get a good nanny, then eveything run smoothly. But when you get a bad nanny, you need to learn those mistakes from experience. In future, you need to explain briefly your requirements before getting her starts. Both parties must have a clear understanding to avoid unexpected arguments.
    I agreed with someone saying that it is very hard to find a good service nowadays no matter it is a live-in nanny or at the confinement centre. What I like to say is different people have different expectations/thinkings. It is true that some nanny are very calculative, but they are also mothers who like to find faults on other people too.
    BTW, Congratutulations!!
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